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I'm an atheist and I fully agree that tribalism and politicization are a large part of the problem. I have religious friends who had all sorts of ideas about what atheists were like before they met me, and I was the same towards them. Finding our common humanity is the way forward, whether you are religious or not.

actually, everyone wants you t get their App. It's cliche and I would definitely not want one more gadget on my phone

Kingdom vs. Business? Was Jesus more concerned about Souls or Profits ?

'moderate' politicians? jesus.. the Overton Window has shifted so for right we barely have a left anymore.. what he calls 'extreme left' barely call for the solutions he's advocating..

My ex hisband calling me a b*tch/c*umt almost everyday screaming at me in front of the kids, blaming everything on me.....yeah, not safe for me so i shut down for the kids.

We did not have to mask or isolate we were cohorsed to do so.

One of the best episodes of any podcast I have every heard great and necessary conversation

Hearing your words right now is lowering my blood pressure, slowing my breathing, widening my perspective about trauma and how the last three years has depleted my reserves and the "Dory line": "just keep swimming!" I needed this in ways I can't adequately describe! So grateful i came across this!

Oh my word, I didn't know I needed this!

Scott typifies a single child upbringing. Searching for fulfilment in mortal existence but finding his rest in moments with Soul.

Don't know anyone rejecting their church.

Russell is correct. In the church I attended it was clear that no one in charge had actually really read the Bible or any of the other church founders. The monies extractible from the congregations and the desire for office seemed to be the important thing. So i personally found peace by just letting them do and say whatever they wanted. And yes Trump and his family and gang now seem to be heading the same way in our country, oncluding bringing religion into it. They clearly have not learned from the Bible except how to grab power. Very sad situation. And the Evangelical churches seem to be in the forefront of supporting this nonsense.

This video was chock full of wisdom - thank you! I especially appreciated the "toxic availability" segment starting at 27:25. I couldn't put my finger on it until you addressed it, but I am going to set unapologetic boundaries with responding to others in a normal/healthy timeframe.

Very interesting..thank you sir..

Great convo… I believe therapy does provide a space for processing where many churches don’t provide that space. I loved what she said….information doesn’t equal transformation

I would note that the cartoonish stereotypes of non-believers are not new. That has been going on in earnest since the rise of the Moral Majority in the Reagan era. Given that Reaganism itself was fueled by exactly the angry nostalgia Dr. Moore describes here, current circumstances are wholly unsurprising.

The question I always have when it comes to this type of conversation is: What did the body of Christ do before the late 60's and early 70's before therapy was a thing? We had "real pastors". Men that sit with people. They shepherded people. They loved and served their flocks. Those men rarely exist in the church today. We have outsourced pastoring to therapists. This is a massive disservice to the people of God.

I love this conversation! So timely for my faith community and my life!

Sodom and Gomorrah sound familiar, same course, we all know the ending

I'm hearing this in 2024 and am going thru it and just realized the old wound that God needs to give me grace to heal. Thank you, and God bless

Yo i love your podcast and your leadership material but how come you guys don't interview more Pastors/teachers.leaders who represent the other 40% of the country (minorities)? Seems like 95% of your content is targeted to white churches. I bet many white churches would benefit greatly to hear about what God is doing in other contexts and cultures that are outside of the white population. You guys are missing out on the work God is doing through the Gospel in so many parts of america and our world.

Based on the title I was expecting a different conversation. I was hoping to hear a discussion about the role of doctrine and theology. There seems to be so much confusion about what the New Testament teaches about teaching true doctrine and protecting against false doctrine I was expecting there be to some conversation about the role of the Pastor vs the Role of the Christian therapist with regards to scripture, doctrine, theology. I have been a pastor and a licensed therapist for over 20 years. You touched a little bit on examples when pastors get out of their lane preaching and teaching and speak in an uniformed way about mental health. I thought that was good. What about when therapist correct what they believe is false doctrine / teaching and propose a different doctrine or teaching? I would love to hear a whole podcast about this topic. In my vert limited scope I find a number of pastors who believe that their doctrine aligns almost perfectly with clinical mental health. I I also speak with a number of Christian therapist who believe that their doctrine aligns perfectly with their view of mental health. I would love to hear a conversation defining the role of a Pastor / Elder and Christian Therapist when the two disagree on doctrine and theology. When it comes to a conversation about the "new church" I expected more conversation about preaching, teaching, protecting against false teaching and teaching true doctrine.

Great video! Great guest! Love this discussion! I think the field of psychology is helpful if one desires to be more socially adaptable or functional in society. But as a Christian, which is a person who is guided by supernatural principles of faith found in scripture, we ultimately have to go back to what God's word says about adapting ourselves to the principles of this world and our culture. The teachings of Jesus were about as counter-cultural as you can get..And if applied faithfully, I don't think they'll have us concerned with our traumas. Because his teachings may in fact add more "trauma" to our lives. Which is what the "cross" is all about and the end result of practicing his love.. "Turning the other cheek" will cost us mightily... The Apostle Paul also said, "our faith doesn't rest on man's wisdom but on the power of God." (1 Corinthians 2:5) So there is hope against trauma through the power of the Holy Spirit. But Dr. Allison is incredibly knowledgeable and a very lovely lady. I appreciated her views and knowledge very much..

Oh my goodness, what an excellent interview!!

This was really good. That tension she described with God, others, and self is a really great framework. And she was spot on with the over correcting!!

Wonderful interview.

GREAT broadcast! 2 words about comparison," Killing Comparison," Nona Jones

How shall you go unless you are called! We should not trust man but God. There is only one mediator who is Christ! Walk as He walked - deny yourself pick up your cross and follow Him. We don’t need a church - we ARE the church. We gather in small groups in homes and study God’s word and build one another in love and good works. Religion is too divided and that is not what God wants. Be ye oerfect as your Father in Heaven is perfect - not by your own doing but through our Lord Jesus Christ who through His sacrifice makes us perfect in Him. Keep your eye single on our Lord!🙏

Jordan Peterson explores overlap of religion and psychology.

I find that I'm often the odd one in my current church culture. AND... Comparison is a tricky bird and so prevalent in the church. This was a reminder to me that it's fine that the path I'm on is different from other leaders in my community. Recently the Holy Spirit has been telling me to create more margin and I wonder at why I have a need for it while others don't seem to.🤔 At a recent prayer meeting before church I was sharing about how I regularly face spiritual warfare while they don't. And I felt happy for them.😉 And yet one of the senior leaders and I seem to experience it more. I'm thankful for that kind of community. Happy to know someone else who "gets it". What she said about being curious is good. Asking, Why is that not ok for me? Why is that a part of our church culture? Being curious helps me to be teachable and less judgemental. The truth is that I can see things others don't and I often wonder at the place God has put me in. And yet the story of Esther comes to mind. "What if He has put me in this position for such a time as this?" Thanks for sharing this. It's given me a few things to think on.🤔

Daniel is My hero

I was homeless, got into drugs, went into prisons, then i got to know Jesus, He changed my life.. Now i make 22k weekly. have a home, a wife, a lovely daughter... A child of God. HALLELUJAH.

I was homeless, got into drugs, went into prisons, then i got to know Jesus, He changed my life.. Now i make 22k weekly. have a home, a wife, a lovely daughter... A child of God. HALLELUJAH.

I was homeless, got into drugs, went into prisons, then i got to know Jesus, He changed my life.. Now i make 22k weekly. have a home, a wife, a lovely daughter... A child of God. HALLELUJAH

A side benefit of today is helping me understand why a guy who never wants a negative thing to come out of his mouth and is affirming others at ever chance is often not trusted. I had decided when I chose Christ over suicide to never add to another's pain. I wanted to be a source of hope in the life of others. Just about every time I see something worthy of affirmation I speak to it. I've always wanted to be a force opposite of what I was under for years. I see now that the "nothing but abundant affirmation" person would be feared as a manipulative salesman.

It's boring. We've seen there are other choices in the world than "one woman 💕 one man" arrangements. Men are from Mars and women are not. Viva la differance'.

What happened at the 12:20ish mark???? Your voice sped up and went silent??? I missed an important part of what you said!!! Awesome Ted talk so far!!!!

You are amazing. My daughter died and you're helping me smile again, and laugh. THANK YOU!!!

I’m curious how this fits with the problem of narcissism that Jim Wilder talks about in his book the Pandora Problem. That book addresses ow narcissism is tolerated in the church and he points to the response a healthy church would have to narcissism. Would the narcissistic person fall in the evil or foolish category? What about the divisive person that is talked about in the New Testament? Thanks for the good teaching!

There are so many churches in America where there is little to no accountability for staff. We're often the most inefficient organization on earth. Now, it takes 12 staff to do what 2 did 40 years ago! I asked for details of whom was on staff at my church two months ago, and still NO RESPONSE from Exec Pastor. And often, when someone brings needed accountability and questions, they get labeled as "toxic." That is unhealthy as well.

This is so helpful! I'm really loving this new format!

I am a bit concerned about the lost art of confronting sin. Of course we look at ourselves firstly as mentioned but sometimes getting healthy churches requires the courage to stand up to the unhealthy leaders or parishioners? Right? Throughout scripture we see clearly that these were God's people rejected by the majority for doing so. Jesus too. Of course no church is perfect! Can you speak a bit to that? Jackie

Thank you so very much

Fantastic pod! I love how you put into words what I have seen also. These keys are subtle but very telling. Really appreciate your content, Carey! I have already sent this to multiple church leaders! 😊

Amazing interview. Beth just glows and emanates enthusiasm and the Llove of Christ. Accuracy and ingenuity! So good. Making the truth not just memorable, but unforgettable. Well done, as always, Carey.

Carey, so good. I discovered all of these things in the course of my ministry. There’s a good book that fits with what you’re saying and deals mostly with the “evil“ contingent, “Antagonist in the church.” The book is very helpful for me in a very difficult time in my ministry. Your content is always excellent. I like this new format. Keep this stuff coming!

This was well done!!! Keep these coming. It's a wise way to do the podcast. Your voice is genuinely caring and it comes across in how and what you're communicating. Well done Carey!

Very helpful and affirming of decisions that must be made with toxic people. Thanks!

Wow, excellent. I think we also need teaching of this type in school for our everyday life. I have shared this with my adult children so they can learn how to avoid and handle toxic people... not just in a ministry setting, but frankly, in our lives. We each have a mission to fulfill, and by allowing toxic people into our fold, we hinder our own individual ministry. This is fantastic from an organizational perspective and also valuable on a personal level. Excellent message, Carey.